Marriage can be beautiful, fun and exciting, but several times it is not, for some people the pieces just do not come together. My husband and I have met and counselled several couples who have confessed Jesus as their Lord, love the Lord, and seems faithful in serving Him. However, their marriage is not blissful. Instead, it is full of pain, agony and sometimes threatened.
A good marriage is not about perfection, but a relationship where multitudes of unresolvable are overlooked. A renowned scholar said "Happily married couples are not smarter, richer, or more psychologically astute than others. However, in their day-day lives, they have hit upon a dynamic that keeps their negative thoughts and feelings about each other (which all couples have) from overwhelming their positive ones."
Why settle for the less when you can get exceptional? It's not about what we are born into but what we choose and grow up to become. Choose to have it blissful, romantic, joyful never heartbroken. There is a price to pay though, sacrifices to be made; be willing to make the needed sacrifice, go for it, the end justifies it. You can do it, be one of those who enjoy the most incredible bliss on earth.
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